What is the best strategy for getting the best result.
There is no definite answer. The result
depends not as much on the quantity of letters
you have written as much on the efforts you put in it.
The trick is not only to get responses, but to get enough
responses to give you plenty of choices.
Getting a 30-40% response is normal.
If you are young and
good-looking, you will get more responses than if you are
old and ugly, it is just natural.
Of course your appearance
is of no small importance thing. But you have to know that women
will not judge you just by your photo.
You can make her interested in your person by special letter.
Some men do get a 100% response; again, it depends highly
on you.
The first letter is the most important.
It must be interesting to read. There is no second chance
to make the first impression.
The first letter should be composed in simple language(try
to avoid idioms,phraseology),should not be not too short
and not too formal.Good humor is
the best way to make reading fun but don't be a clown.
Never make jokes about the girl's appearance, her
English, etc. Better to laugh at yourself than to laugh
at her.
The letter should provide enough information
for the lady to the conclusion you are the man she needs.
Introducing yourself don't forget mention such details:
your residence,age,height,weight,education,religion,
children,interests.
Mention some special personal qualities,what points
you out among others.
The most important thing is what you are waiting from
relationships.As Russian women are looking for a marriage
partner they need assurance that you are ready for serious
relationships, that your aim is to set up house (not just
to be pen friends).
Tell her about a woman of your dream.
It could introduce you better than many other words.
Also you can explain why do you decided
to write her,why you like her.Make her some simple
and yet pleasant compliments.It could be similar
to this:
"You make the impression of a very smart (sincere,
kind, understanding ? pick yours!) person. I feel
you are the one I had been looking for."
Try to be positive in your letter.Never write
about your personal problems in first letter,about unseccessful
experience in relationships,problems with health.
No any sexual questions.
Before asking her questions read her profile carefully.
Sometimes women provide some detail there.
Include questions she would want to answer.
You can offer her to discuss some topics you are interested in
to know her better.For example:
"Tell me about your family. Do you have any brothers or sisters?
Do you live with your parents or separately from them?"
"Tell me about your job. Do you like it or are you making
plans for finding another one?"
"How do you spend your days off? Do you camping and nature?
Do you have a dacha? (Note: In Russia, "dacha" is means a small
garden cottage with some land located beyond the city limits.)"
"When is your birthday? Do you like horoscopes? Do you believe
in compatibility by the horoscope?"
Tell me something about your city.
"What do you think the ideal family looks like?
What did you think of your future family when you were a child?"
Questions and some notices,promises,"announcements"(like "I will
tell you more in my next letter") give her the feeling that
you are interested in corresponding with her.
Closing the letter ask her for a response (for ex:"I'm looking
forward to your response.I hope we become friends. ")
These words express your serious intentions regarding your
communication.
As you have a large profile in our agency,
there is no need to repeat in each letter your info: age, country,
profession. You can just show in the first letter your interest to
the girl and explain why you decided to write to her.
You will have high level of response
at our agency. First, we have in our agency only very active girls,
girls who are really serious to find their second half abroad. Secondly,
we try to have responses from all the girls, so we do not only resend to the girls
your letters, we phone to them and tell them aobut you and your letter, The girl can even
dictate her reply by phone if she can't come to the agency and write you the answer
this week. As many girls do not have computers and Internet at home, we give them
the possibility to use computer and Internet in the office for free to write you
answers. Of course, the answer can be positive or negative, as well as you girls also
have choice. But you will know for sure, that the girl is real and existing.